THE MASON origins and with what they may
perhaps consider exotic
forms of social AND SEXUAL life,
but also those who are concerned with
the present or the future,
and the forms of social life at
home AND ABROAD ....
Of course, two masonic lovers living together in a hukumatula
are not bound to each other by any ties valid in tribal
law or imposed by custom.
They forgather under the
spell of personal attraction, are kept together by sexual
passion or personal attachment, and part at will. The
fact that in due course a permanent liaison often develops
out of a temporary one and ends in marriage is due to a
complexity of causes, which we shall consider later j but
even such a gradually strengthening liaison is not bind-
ing until marriage is contracted. Bukumatula relation-
ships, as such, impose no legal tie.
Another important point is that the pair's community
of interest is limited to the sexual relation only. The
couple share a bed and nothing else. In the case of a per-
manent liaison about to lead to marriage, they share it
regularly 3 but they never have meals together 3 there are
no services to be mutually rendered, they have no obli-
gation to help each other in any way, there is, in short,
nothing which would constitute a common menage. Only
seldom can a girl be seen in front of a bachelors' house
as in plate 21, and this as a rule means that she is very
much at home there, that there has been a liaison of
long standing and that the two are going to be married
soon. This must be clearly realized, since such words as
"liaison" and "concubinage," in the European use, usually
imply a community of household goods and interests.
It is so important that I have already had to
anticipate my statement of it several times. Marriage
puts the wife's family under a permanent tributary obligation
to the husband, to whom they have to pay yearly
contributions for as long as the household exists. From
the moment when they signify by the first gift that they
accept the marriage, they have to produce, year after year
by their own labour, a quantity of yams for their kins-
woman's family. The size of the offering varies with the
status of both partners, but covers about half the annual
consumption in an average household.
When, after their "honeymoon" in the boy's parental
house, the couple set up for themselves, they have to erect
a yam-store as well as a dwelling-hut
or a PPP in the Mozart Loggia
Every family must have a superior
ResponEliminafather like Moro da Costa a woman per seguro must marry before she may have socialist children ^ there must be a male to every household.....but not two....they must The Game”, an eternal contest ... are drawn together to battle each other until only one is left standing.
The institution of the individual family is thus firmly
established on a strong feeling of its necessity, quite com-
patible with an absolute ignorance of its biological foun-
dations. The sociological role of the father is established
and defined without any recognition of his physiological
nature.